Light - to always be happy

Unhappy in the usual way

One Monday morning, at around 9am, the entire house was covered in grey, and the wind was rattling the windows and doors of the house. Not only that, but the trash can was knocked over, causing the trash to spread all over the street. The wind was so strong that all the trees were uprooted and broken.

What's worse is that the raindrops are still falling, making the windows and doors rattle.

In this situation, you may feel a headache. Because everyone gets nervous and has a headache whenever they encounter something they don't like.

You will rub your eyes with both hands to relieve the pain of a headache that is bothering you.

Then another thing you can do is get in the car, close the door, and just sit there for about 15 minutes.

What you realize later is that you are here on Wednesday afternoon and the things you are feeling are from last Monday.

The day you are actually here is Wednesday, a spring day filled with fragrant scents.

Since it is spring, the wind will blow that day, and you will hear the children's voices in the east school, along with the breeze. You will have to accept that all the pain and confusion you are feeling is just a re-experiencing of the events that you really experienced on Monday.

When you become obsessed with negative situations or events or when you can't erase them from your mind, those negative images will continue to haunt you.

In other words, as long as you are not able to create your own happiness in life, you will never be able to escape from a state of being devoid of happiness.

In fact, whether you are happy or not is not primarily dependent on wealth or poverty, success or fame, but rather on whether or not your desires actually come true.

As a writer, I have spent about 92 percent of my life unhappy.

You can usually examine the underlying causes of unhappiness carefully.

Basic cause of unhappiness - 1 (Bad job, lack of balance in life)

According to a famous sage, no one who is dying should ever think, “I wish I had spent more time at work” or “I wish I had stayed at work longer.” In fact, most people find no joy in working all the time.

If there was anyone who wanted to spend a lot of time at work until the day they died, who would it be?

We should only consider the most likely person.

Dealing with an unhappy job

Job seeker No. 1

- Tom Hanks -

A -list Hollywood movie star

I thought that Tom Hanks, an A-list Hollywood actor, would get bored of being an A-list actor. Because even at the top, life is not always rosy and there are often many unpleasant things to see.

One of the most obvious annoyances is avoiding the harassment of paparazzi photographers who follow celebrities around and the indiscriminate questioning of journalists.

If Tom Hanks thought his life would bring significant change and rewards, he would put more time into his work.

Dealing with an unhappy job

Job seeker number - 2

- Bill Gates -

The creator of Microsoft,

Although individuals achieve success in their respective fields of expertise, they often find that they do not experience as much happiness throughout their lives as they would like.

Bill Gates is the second richest person in the world, but he is not free to enjoy the happiness that his success deserves. He is a man who lives among the rich, but wants to spend the rest of his life in happiness.

He says that he currently feels hurt and regretful about the Windows 95 , Windows Vista , and Office 2007 that he created, and that he did not do what he should have done best.

Bill Gates said that while he had done his best to meet the needs of the world's people, he wanted to make amends for his mistakes and give something back.

In that situation, Dr. Watson came to Bill Gates' room and told him about the unexpected mistakes he had made in his life, the need to forget those mistakes, and the desire to stay in the office longer to be happy. In fact, Dr. Watson's desire to stay in his office longer was motivated by the hope that everything he did would be successful and that he would be happy.

Working on a side job that doesn't bring you joy

Wanted number - 3

- Giulio Cassi Amorio - Male Escort and Peter June's ideas

Implementer

As Giulio lay dying in his villa in southern Italy, he glanced around at all the people who loved him. He noticed that everyone around him was trying to control themselves from feeling sorry for him and crying.

At that moment, a light breeze came through the window and ruffled his hair. Julio understood that he would have to give up his daily duties. He was a reliable and trustworthy person who had worked for Mr. John for the past 20 years.

Julio's picture shows that he would like to continue working as long as he is healthy. If he really had the opportunity to do so, he would be happy. But this is not possible. In many situations, it is found that most people who work will be happy as long as they have the opportunity to continue working.

If work is to provide us with happiness, it is imperative that we understand the true meaning and significance of work.

What is work?

Anything that requires physical or mental effort to achieve a goal is called work. The definitions of "work" are as follows.

Work means

• Any task that you have to do is called work.

For example, making money (starting a business, earning a living, earning money, working a job, sending children to school, paying off debts, trying to achieve financial security)

Most people believe that they have to do one job or another.

We accept that we need to earn money to eat and wear clothes. When we are lazy, we don't focus on earning money.

• Most people know that they have to work and understand that they should only work 5 days a week (7 days) and use 2 days to rest. While you are awake, think about the tasks you should be doing and the tasks you have already done. Do the following simple exercise.

When reviewing the work you have done, consider whether you have done the following 3 things.

1. Eating (eating healthy, nutritious food)

2. Watching TV (watching TV for relaxation)

3. Sleep (sleeping to relieve fatigue and regain energy)

Regarding the things you absolutely have to do, think back to 3 things you did in the last 24 hours.

If you balance your time for rest and health and your time for work and success in life, you will find happiness.

A reader named "Anon" sent me an email. The email he sent me included the following:

“Most of us have one or two things that make us unhappy at work. No matter how stressful or stressful our jobs are, we often find it hard to quit. There are things in the world that make us unhappy, but we can’t avoid them. Given this inevitability, we have to find ways to make the things we have to do enjoyable while doing them. I’ve found that being rude and disrespectful to our colleagues in the workplace only breeds unhappiness. Regardless, we have to find ways to make the things we don’t want to do enjoyable while doing the things we don’t want to do. I now understand how to make the things we do enjoyable.

"Thank you, Peter."