Beauty - How to conquer life

There must be a goal.

"Where is your friend?"

It wouldn't be good if you had to think about where you were going and what you were doing only when someone approached you to say hello.

The moment you put on your shoes and step onto the road, you must have a clear intention of where you are going. A person who moves on the road must at least be able to walk, and at least be able to walk.

There must be some purpose, such as getting fresh air or relieving boredom. Any activity without a purpose will result in a waste of physical energy or time.

If a person lights a stove for hours on end, not to cook, not to light a fire, not to test it, you will be filled with the desire to question and criticize him. You will not dare to ask him why he is wasting fuel. You will also be dissatisfied, wondering if he is doing something without any purpose. However, you yourself will do things without purpose many times during the day.

You may enter a tea shop and order a cup of tea. Why do you do it? Is it to satisfy your hunger? Is it to entertain a guest? Is it to meet and mingle with friends? Is it to taste the tea that the shop has to offer? Is it to save time because it is still early to go somewhere? Is it to read the newspaper that is placed in the shop? Is it to exchange money? Is it to listen to what other people are saying? Is it to relieve boredom? There must be a reason. If you say that you have no purpose, you are not far from being a fool.

It would seem that no one would do anything without a purpose. However, there are those who do things without any purpose at all, and those who do things with vague and unclear purposes.

Of course, every action must have a purpose. Because of purpose, the action is more targeted and effective.

A doctor in the United States chose two young men of similar height, body size, and weight, and then had them train their bodies with weights to make them look good.

In such training, a person is precisely informed about which movement exercises are for which muscles in which part of the body, and each exercise targets the corresponding muscle.

One was given special training to focus on strength and development. The other was given the same exercises for the same number of repetitions, but without any explanation or explanation, and was simply given the exercises without any purpose. The two were also given as much nutrition as possible. For about two months

When examining and measuring physical development, it is evident that those who practice with attention to their consciousness and the relevant muscles develop more.

This example shows how having a purpose can be physically beneficial for success.

Two school friends from the same city, who had only seen each other occasionally, had drifted apart until one day they met again at a friend's house.

Then the guest friend looked at the host's bookshelf and was not only surprised, but also couldn't help but ask.

“Wait, your bookshelf is so well organized by subject. It has books you’ve never seen in stores, and it has everything you need on every topic. How do you organize all of this?”

Then the host's friend replied.

"I always look for books, ask questions about books, work on books, and collect them wherever I go."

Then the two friends went to the cinema to watch a movie. It was still early, so they stood at the entrance. At that moment, about 20 people passed by and greeted their guest friend within a few minutes. Out of every five or ten people who passed by, at least one of them greeted the friend warmly, and the friend was smiling and laughing all the time.

Then the host's friend could no longer hold back and asked.

"You know everyone who comes, don't you know all the people you know, or do you know everyone in the whole city?"

Then his friends replied.

"I know, I make friends with everyone I meet. At least one friend I make every time I ride the bus. I'm always looking for friends, so I only have friends."

If we study these two people, we can find that, just as the person who intended to find and collect books collected books, the person who intended to find and collect friends collected friends during the same period.

If we were to live without any purpose, we would only be able to eat, drink, and live. A person on a train must have a destination in mind.

We have arrived at this human life, so we must set some goals.

The world is full of possibilities and possibilities. You have to choose the level and goal you want to be and set your sights on it. You have to have a tangible goal, “What state do I want to reach?” Once you have a goal, you can’t help but keep moving in that direction.

“If I marry a woman, she must be wealthy, beautiful, intelligent, able to take care of the house, and be good to my mother,” etc., and it is impossible to set goals for everything good, everything high, and everything progressive in life. It is impossible to want to watch all 10 movies that are shown at once. All good things are desirable, but you must have a specific goal, a kind of goal. Only then can you concentrate and use all your energy in one direction without scattering it. Only when the goal is clear, not vague, not mixed, and only when the process is clear and precise will it be clear and precise.

We choose the most desirable state, the level we want to reach, and the life we ​​want to embrace for our lives, and then we say, "I will try to reach this state, this camp."

One must have a clear vision of one's life. As soon as one is born, one must have a clear vision of one's life goal. The attitude of just going along with the flow is a weak attitude. One should not follow the foolish idea of ​​simply abandoning one's own efforts and reaching one's destination, saying that one is destined to fail.

A person who wants to progress will not want to be carried along by the waves and landed wherever they want. They will want to steer and row their own ship to where they want to be.

You have limbs. You have a head and eyes. You have blood and a heart. You have ears and a mouth. But why don't you think about your life's purpose, don't you look at it, don't you decide, don't you make a vow? Those who claim to be great in the world are no better than you in the possession of the 32 koṭhas, the body.