Myat Nyein - Self-worship

Success

I remember sitting with a group of comedians in Los Angeles. They were all, like me, hoping to break into the comedy world. I had entered the most competitive market in the world. I was determined to learn as much as I could in a year while working there. The time was 1985. It was a time when people were asking if comedy was the new rock and roll. Success meant wealth, fame, the ability to skip the line at any restaurant in town, plus fast cars, beautiful women, and a big house in the Beverly Hills. All of these things were the rewards we dreamed of. The divine chalice we so desperately desired.

I've been there for about six months now. I've been able to gradually fit into the club scene. No one has hired me yet. But at least I'm working on weekends. And there's always the possibility that someone might fall for me. It's a possibility that we all embrace. One thing's for sure, none of us have fallen for anyone yet. After a movie, we go to a bar or a restaurant, our usual job as a group of silver stars. And we sit there and kill time before we go home. On the way home, we dissect the talents of our rival comedians, piece by piece, with a critical knife.

One night, I was with a group of other comedians at an all-night restaurant. We were just talking about the most recent episode. At that moment, I noticed, without thinking about anything in particular, that the comedians we were talking to were usually divided into two classes. There were those who were talented in their own right. But there was one class of people who were not as successful as us. We considered those people to be extremely unlikely to become great achievers. We considered those who were significantly more successful than us to be the lucky ones.

We believe that the power that governs and determines success is karma. Karma will come to us in various ways, and touch us. Or it will not. We all pray that there is something that will lead us to the top. We all pray that karma will pick us out one by one.

But we are wrong to view success in this way. In fact, successful people never just pray. They believe. That is the difference between us. That is the difference between success and failure.

From that night onward, I had a series of extraordinary experiences. They forever changed the way I saw myself and my potential. In the many business meetings and consulting sessions that followed, I heard people speak to me in many different ways. They spoke in many different ways, in different ways. The words they spoke were the exact same words I had spoken in Los Angeles in 1985.

There is one thing I cannot say about fate. Success is not a matter of luck. Luck is a matter of chance, while success is a matter of planning.

Success is a matter of luck. If you want proof, just ask any loser.

Earl Wilson

So if success is a matter of planning, where is the blueprint or plan?

The answer to that question starts with how you define success. If I were to ask you, what do you really want in life? How would you answer?

Money, fame, freedom... whatever you want. Your size and your body. Many companies want profit growth and recognition.

But does having money alone make you successful? How can it? Otherwise, wouldn't lottery winners, bank robbers, and those who inherit large sums of money be considered the greatest achievers? What about fame? History has shown that fame does not guarantee success or happiness. Moreover, the ability to gain personal freedom is like fame.

I believe that success is best defined as the gradual realization of your personal and professional goals. Wealth, fame, and other things are just side effects of achieving those goals.

Ask a successful person what they want in life. Their answer will not be vague or general. They will clearly define what success means to them. But that goal will not be a sum of money in the bank or a general state of happiness. That goal will be a very specific target. When you hit that target, you will feel fulfilled and fulfilled.

Whether it's an individual or a business, the ability to clearly define your goals is a key to success. Winners have the same opportunities you and I have. They have the same disappointments you and I have. What sets long-term winners apart from the rest is their mindset and their attitude. Those are the only two things in life that everyone has complete control over.

Success is not a matter of luck, it is a matter of planning. Winners are not those who are given more opportunities; they are those who create opportunities. They do not allow temporary setbacks to tarnish their self-image. They see temporary setbacks as opportunities in disguise. They see them as opportunities that support their determination to succeed.

Whatever your dream for the future, if it is within the realm of possibility, it can become a reality. But reading a book (including this one) in the hope of finding a shortcut to becoming rich or a mantra to reach the top will not help you achieve your goals. Because if you really want to direct your life towards the goal of success and happiness, you need to really invest your heart and soul. The unbreakable

Introduction

Sometimes the world seems so unfair. You work so hard. You try your best. But nothing seems to work out. But there are people who are full of one desire. Why do they have to be so quiet and quiet like little children?

My father worked as a general practitioner in Glasgow, without any help from anyone. He died at the age of fifty-two, from a combination of overwork and mental stress. It was a great injustice to such a man who had devoted his whole life to his family and his patients. Then I. I was only twenty-nine. For the first time in my life, I was on the verge of achieving any real success. I was diagnosed with cancer. I said I was not in good shape.

Until that happens in life, I have vague hopes. I will succeed. I will enjoy a life that is guaranteed by fate, that I will not have to worry about money. I know that I need to be active for the future. But I don’t know why. I don’t really believe that whether I act or not will make a difference. In other words, I feel that my destiny is completely in someone else’s hands. Instead of taking action to make the successes I want happen, I live a life of failure and failure. I watch the time pass by and I feel angry. I am very forgiving of myself and always ready to blame others. I am too eager to postpone my future until something happens.

I have been like that since I was a child. Like many other children, I used to wonder what my future held. I used to wonder if my childhood dreams would come true. At the same time, I secretly believed that they would never happen. It is not easy to shake off this ingrained belief that inevitably leads to failure and unfulfilled desires. I went to school. I believed that I would not succeed. I was right. I went to university. I believed that I would not succeed. Once again, I was right. This is my own interpretation of events. But sometimes, when I try to do things that I strongly believe will succeed, I actually succeed. It is a surprising fact.

It was only after I learned that I had cancer that a chain of thought struck me. In that moment of insight, I learned a lesson. That simple realization was a life-changing experience for me. That realization led me to write this book. That realization was not complicated or grand. I didn’t discover the secret of the universe. I didn’t find a simple, easy way to live a happy life overnight. But I did understand why successful people succeed.

Over the past few years, I have read everything I could get my hands on. I have studied and written. I have talked to people who have had the experience to learn from. I have refined the basic concepts I have heard over and over again. I have made them clear, easy to understand, and immediately applicable. I have come to realize that knowledge alone is not power. For power to be real, knowledge must be systematically applied. I have begun to apply my knowledge. I have set clearer goals, developed a more positive attitude, and have lived my life. The transformation has been so rapid and so exciting. In place of the anxiety and stress I had felt in the past, I have developed a sense of self-confidence and peace of mind. Now | I feel confident that I can get on with life. Or | as one of my friends put it, “I am just starting to fit in with the world.” My future is no longer a maze of uncertainties to be avoided. It's been a journey full of experiences to embrace, face, and enjoy. I'm happy.

I didn't find a simple, easy way to do it, but I did understand why those who succeed succeed.

Over the past few years, I have read everything I could get my hands on. I have studied and written. I have talked to people who have had the experience to learn from. I have refined the basic concepts I have heard over and over again. I have made them clear, easy to understand, and immediately applicable. I have realized that knowledge alone is not power. For power to be real, knowledge must be systematically applied. I have begun to apply my knowledge. I have set clearer goals and developed a positive attitude and have gone about my life. The transformation has been so rapid and so exciting. In place of the worries and stress I had felt in the past, I have developed a sense of self-confidence and peace of mind. I now feel confident that I can get on with life. Or, as one of my friends put it, “I am just starting to fit in.” My future is no longer a maze of uncertainties to be avoided. It's been a journey full of experiences to embrace and enjoy. I'm happy.

As I reaped the physical and mental benefits of my new perspective, I became passionate about sharing this worldview with others and helping them achieve success. So I boiled down the entire system into a two-day course that I dubbed the Born Winners. Initially, the course was offered free of charge to those close to me. Today, the business has grown and expanded as I had envisioned. This course unlocks the latent potential within individuals and organizations to create success. It drives growth. We have implemented the Born Winners mindset in our leadership, change management, customer focus, and team building courses. More specifically, the way we think, rather than how we do, directly impacts the results we achieve. The Born Winners mindset can be applied to all areas of business and life.

Now I speak at conferences around the world. The elements of success are absolute. Eternal. Fixed. And I believe that these elements have little to do with the decorations that adorn them. Success is not just about luck. Success is not about coming first or being happy because you have a lot of money. We all recognize a saying that has both truth and falsehood. You can be rich and poor. You can be in high places and miserable. .

Successful people and businesses are winners from within. Success is an inner feeling as well as an outer expression. I have not discovered anything new in my research. However, my findings are for me. Sometimes, as I joke, life happens without a manual... Yet we are born with an innate ability to overcome life's challenges. The closest thing to a manual is within us. We forget that it is there.

I wrote this book because I wanted to share with you the timeless and definitive knowledge I have gained. And because I wanted to introduce you to a practical, easy-to-use program that will help you develop your latent talents.

I didn't climb Mount Everest or win an Olympic gold medal. But the journey I've taken has been a long one. I've felt insecure and anxious about the uncertainty of my future. No matter what feelings of inadequacy you've experienced, I know where you're coming from.

No matter who you are or what your circumstances are, this book is for you. I don’t think of this as a “cook your own food” book. I think this book is more like a set of dishes that you can choose from. Choose from the lessons in this book those that are meaningful to you and that you can apply. Then stand tall as a winner in your life’s mission. If you combine the knowledge in this book with an understanding of the future you desire, you can make a difference in your life. Here’s the thing. It’s not easy to do. You need to be determined, committed, and determined to follow the right path. But you can.

I wish I had known and understood what I know to be true now when I was younger. It’s so easy to tell ourselves that we can’t achieve the goals we set for ourselves, that we can’t make our dreams come true. I believe in my heart that I can help you develop a belief. That belief is that you can. Because I know that if you believe you can, you can.