You are my friend - Child's Thought

(1)

The child returned home and told his mother about his experience.

“Mom... I stepped on an aunt's foot on the bus today... I apologized, so the aunt gave me a chocolate bar.”

"Son, did you say thank you?"

"Oh no... I stepped on his other leg."

( 2 )

There are people in our social circle who are handicapped.

Handicap means a handicap. In chess, a handicap is a score given. If the opponent is inferior to you in skill, you can play with a bishop or knight on your side before the game starts, to compensate for their weakness.

I believe that then there will be justice...

It's the same in society. Some people are treated with kindness (out of pity, out of pity) and compassion.

But... the problem is, some of them don't know it. They're just arrogant.

Like big bad kids.

I apologized for stepping on my own foot, and I felt sorry for them, so I offered them a chocolate. They stepped on the other foot again...

Isn't it difficult? Some houses..., some shops...

When I saw the sign that said (Don't think that I'm being too hard on myself)... I thought, 'Oh... they also get trampled on from time to time,' and smiled.

Yes... It's true that we have to compromise because we are bad, but... Who can tolerate it when it happens so often? We're all just human beings, right?

(3)

A friend of mine read that sign in a different way.

(Don't think that giving in to pain is 'good'.)

He read that and then... he came to me and asked, "Hey, man... isn't "at" the Chinese way of saying "father"?..."

I thought, if he reads it like that, then he's not bad in his own sense.

Yes...

The thought of someone who wants another chocolate and steps on other people's feet without any hesitation is a child's thought. I've already said it. Those people are children, childish people.

Who can tolerate them in the long run? His parents at the very least. The rest will surely become disappointed as time goes on.

But... are children difficult?

They think that just because they can be mean to their parents, they have the "right" to be mean to everyone else.

If you see this kind of "childish mind, childish nature," everyone needs to come together and correct it.

Well... the person being corrected will need to be truly willing to correct themselves.

The most important thing in the world is to have the "consciousness" to be true to yourself... to be true to yourself, to be upright, to be correct, to be elevated.

(4)

What about us...

How much do you "care" for yourself?

Have you ever had a "chance" and been like a child with a chocolate bar and just grabbed it?

"Why did you give me this opportunity?" "Is it because you're sick?" "Is it because you're lenient because you're not good enough?"

"Am I the kind of person who blindly accepts the kindness of others without realizing it?" We need to reexamine ourselves.

Not like this, but with the "if you get it, it's over" mentality, what good would we adults do with a child who doesn't mind stepping on other people's feet...

Don't take it every time it's given. Don't want it every time you know you'll get it.

(5)

It's best to get/take your rights when you deserve them.

Problem Solving

There are two types... he said.

One is the Problem-Oriented Method.

Another one....

'Solution-Oriented Method'.