Specialist - Child Problems

Chapter (1)

Among the most fundamental problems facing humanity today, the question of how to solve it is at stake. This problem has never been faced before.

A person first becomes a human being. A certain level of maturity occurs. As they mature, they face new problems.

It has only recently been realized that one of the greatest problems is the problem of children. Never before has such a thing been thought of in the past. No scripture in the world has ever mentioned this. Who would have thought that a child would face the greatest problem? Would it be a very strange thing to say that a child is being abused by some parents who love him and who have made sacrifices for him? It is a meaningless and absurd statement. However, when psychologists now look deeply into the human heart and the workings of the human heart, it becomes clear that the child is the most exploited. No one is exploited more than the child. He is exploited. In fact, the child is exploited behind the facade of love. He is exploited.

It doesn't mean that parents understand that they are exploiting children, that they are oppressing them, that they are destroying them, that they are making them stupid, that they are making them lose their minds.

Parents raise their children in the wrong ways. The child is helpless and dependent on the parents, living as a pawn of their parents. There is no sense of freedom, no desire to escape, no desire to protect themselves. Because they are insecure and vulnerable, the child is easily taken advantage of. They are oppressed.

The oppression of children by some parents in the world is the biggest problem for children. This situation should be eradicated. When it is eradicated, man will first achieve true freedom. Because “the child is the father of man. If the child is raised in the wrong way, then all mankind will face mistakes. The child is the seed. If the seed itself is poisoned, if it is infected, if it is poisoned by the ignorance of those who care for it, then there is no hope for the emergence of a free man, and this dream will remain only a dream and will not be realized.

There is something frightening. If you let your child be free from restraint from the beginning of his life, how much more intelligent and intelligent he will become, how much more independent he will become. How much more agile he will become. However, some parents are worried that the child's behavior will become a way of life that is not broken, or that he will become a way of life that is accustomed to being naughty. No one likes to be naughty. Everyone likes to be modest.

Parents love a humble child. They love a child who listens to their parents without hesitation. There is one thing that is often seen in the human world. A humble child is often a dull and unintelligent child. A child who shows his abilities becomes a brilliant child. However, such a child is not loved by people. He is not recognized. Teachers do not love such a child. Society does not want to recognize him. They often find fault with him. Such a child does not fit into society and lives a solitary life. He often thinks that he is not useful to his parents or that he is not someone who makes them happy, and he becomes weak.

If you think about it carefully, you will understand. Christ's parents did not like to do things early. They liked everyone to be modest.

Parents love a humble child. They love a child who listens to their parents without hesitation. There is one thing that is often seen in the human world. A humble child is often a dull and unintelligent child. A child who shows his abilities becomes a brilliant child. However, such a child is not loved by people. He is not recognized. Teachers do not love such a child. Society does not want to recognize him. They often find fault with him. Such a child does not fit into society and lives a solitary life. He often thinks that he is not useful to his parents or that he is not someone who makes them happy, and he becomes weak.

If you think about it carefully, you will understand. The parents of Christ were not happy and contented because of Christ in the early days. Similarly, the parents of Prince Siddhartha were not happy and contented when Prince Siddhartha went to the forest. These great people were ordinary people who stood out from the crowd and the established rules of the world, so their parents were not happy and contented.

Every child is born with a white cloth. It is not dyed. Later, the child is dyed. They put dirt and dust on the child. A child has the right to be self-reliant. He has the desire to stand on his own strength. However, some parents do not want to let the child stand on his own strength. Parents are afraid of trying to stand on his own strength.

Children need to stand on their own two feet. They need to try to stand on their own two feet.

Because it is the reason for his future security and his economic security. If you think about it carefully, you will understand. Trying to stand on your own is the most basic principle of life. The root is rooted in the ground. If you take sin out of the ground, the root will wither. The root stands on its own strength. It grows strong and strong in the ground by itself. The child is also free to exist in the darkness of the mother's womb. If you pull the child who is free to exist in the darkness of the mother's womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out into the crowd, the child who is free to exist in the womb, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out of the darkness, if you pull him out of the crowd, if you pull him out of the womb

Every thing that needs to grow needs its own privacy. A human being does not need to be isolated. Because he is a human being. A child needs to be isolated. He does not need to be left alone.

Parents often become anxious when their child is lost or alone. They are afraid that if left alone, the child will start to form his own personality. The parents' watchfulness, which does not want to disappear under their eyes, does not help the child to develop his individuality. The child is covered with a superficial personality.

Personality is nothing more than a mask. Personality is a word that comes from the word Person. The word Persona means mask. In Greek drama, the characters wore masks. Sonia means voice. Per means through. The characters often spoke through a mask. The real faces of the characters were not seen. Only their voices were heard. The mask was called Persona because the voice was heard through the mask. From Persona came Personality.

Chapter (3)

A child is under guard, and it is as if he is constantly being guarded. We can see this concept for ourselves. If a person takes a bath, he is a completely different person from other people. He will take off his mask in the bathroom. Even if he is a mature adult, he will be singing. Even if he is an adult, he will be looking at his own face in a different way in the mirror. He knows for sure that he is alone and that he is in a closed place. However, as soon as he realizes that someone is looking through the keyhole, he will immediately change. He will return to a fixed attitude. The singing will disappear. He will no longer look in the mirror and make a different face. He will no longer act in a private way. This is Personality. He has gone back into the closed place.

A child should be given as much freedom as possible. They should not be restricted. Only then can the child develop his/her individuality without interference. However, we want to do whatever we want with children.

There are some people in the Far East. They have a custom. Every morning, every child tells his parents about his dreams. A child is not alone in his dreams. If he dreams something he shouldn't, he will think something he shouldn't. He should tell his parents about it.

Children should not be restricted. They should be allowed to be free. Parents should only help their children. They should not interfere. They should allow their children to do what they want and not force them to do what they don't want. Parents should be careful not to let their children hurt themselves or others.

Children are unique and have a desire to be alone. They need a lot of space to grow and develop. Parents must be very careful not to harm their children.

But more than that, it is important not to discourage children. Parents should create in their children a desire to explore the truth. However, they should not instill any ideology that gives them ideas about the truth. They should teach them how to explore the truth. They should teach them to think critically. They should teach them to experiment. They should teach them to take risks.

Children should be helped to ask questions. Parents should not answer if their children ask questions that they themselves do not really understand. Even if the questions are questions that parents themselves understand, they should say, “Don’t take what we say for granted. What I am saying now is my experience. At the moment I am saying it, it may be wrong or misleading, because for you it is something you have not experienced yourself. Listen to what I say, but do not follow it blindly, do not believe it. Experimentation, investigation, and research are not possible. Knowledge that you do not know yourself is not only useless to you, but can even be dangerous. Knowledge borrowed from others is often a hindrance.

Children should not be oppressed. They should not be given harsh words. They should be helped to become good children. They should be supported. They should be encouraged. A true father, a true mother, a true parent should be the one who builds the foundation for children. Parents should help children to become more rooted in their nature, to become more established, to become more stable, to make them feel loved and not guilty, to make them feel loved and not guilty.