Tin Sein (Say 1) - Thoughts and Thoughts (Part 2)

I've been very busy.

In Myanmar, when people go to restaurants and meet friends, it is a common Burmese custom to pay for the other person's food and drink.

A common saying among the early Chinese people was, “Take the other side and join the group.” I don't know how this tradition started, but there are situations where it can be quite confusing and overwhelming.

For example, let's say two friends who eat at the same restaurant meet. Let's say they meet almost every day. It's not good for one person to pay (unless the person who pays is obviously very rich) because it can be very confusing if he or she takes the money and you take the money. Another thing is that when the other person is about to pay, you want to take the money home, and you still want to eat another meal. It's also difficult if the other person pays for the first 3-4 days and only takes the exact amount when it's your turn, or if the person who pays pays for the bill notices that the waiter miscalculated. Also, if the other person pays for you, it doesn't show that you are more friendly, so you shouldn't do this. It's better to pay for yourself. Instead of saying "I paid for you," you should say, "I paid for myself."

Even if you're eating in a group, it's more cohesive to clean up together than to clean up alone.

I think it's better to show responsibility and show responsibility. If you want to serve as a friend, it's better to invite them and serve them separately.

Think about it.

How to choose a perfume?

Are you going to give birth? Is it your partner's birth?

When you first apply perfume, you can smell the perfume. But it quickly becomes habituated (adapted) and the person who will use the perfume cannot smell the perfume. The person who is close to the person who is wearing the perfume and the person who is far away from the perfume will smell the perfume the longest and the most. So when you choose to use perfume, you need to think about whether you should choose what you like, or what your surroundings like.

The first step is to choose a scent that you like. The perfume you choose represents you. Since it is your identity, you should stick to one or two of your favorite perfumes and wear them to events where there are crowds. Who is Acqua perfume? Everyone knows who you are before they even see you.

But if you're going to meet someone (especially someone you love),

Because the smell is not yours but the other person's, it is your identity, your preferences, your greed, your pride.

Put them aside for a moment and choose a scent that the other person likes as a sign of respect, or as a sign of affection, care, or appreciation. At the very least, if your partner is a girl, choose a scent that a girl likes, and if your partner is a boy, choose a scent that a boy likes. Especially, you should avoid scents that the person you will be with doesn't like. Some people can't stand perfume. It can be an allergy. So, if you wear perfume, it will definitely bother the other person, so even if you are a big fan of perfume, you should avoid wearing perfume that day.

(PS: It's not about perfume. Whatever you do (e.g. choosing food, choosing a place to walk, etc.)

(Not just yourself, but also the other person. Even if you have the choice, if it is not in your best interest, it will be in the other person's best interest. If it is in your best interest, you should consider doing it. When the other person notices that you are being considerate and considerate of them, they respond with love that cannot be valued, and the relationship becomes stronger. If it is not in your best interest, it is better not to waste it.)

Think about it.