Tattoo - Love and Psychology

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I will speak words of love.

Writer Than Swe praised the English movie Home Before Dark one evening, saying, “I watched it without batting an eye.”

That movie is very good. It has a very deep meaning, and we, Than Swe, really like it.

The story is not strange, but it contains a profound meaning of life that is enough to leave a lasting impression on the heart. A woman who has lost her mind is taken home by her husband to a psychiatric hospital after the doctors say she is almost cured. On the way home, the husband drives his car and tells his wife, who is sitting next to him, “I will be home before dark.”

When he got home, his wife apologized to her stepdaughter for everything she had done to him during his illness. Joan said she forgave him. The wife wanted to put up with her husband's behavior, but her husband, the schoolteacher, would not come to bed with her, but slept in the study. Joan helped her do her schoolwork in the study every night. When the wife returned home, she was unable to live without her husband's behavior. The wife had a lover before they got married. She dumped him and married the schoolteacher, Brown. The rejected Hin, who drank heavily, had an unhappy marriage, and divorced his wife three years later.

The wife was so enamored with her husband's behavior that she went to sleep in his bed while her husband and his wife were out. She met her husband's friend who was staying at her house at an inconvenient time, and she was briefly subjected to the guest's affection.

She was upset that her husband only cared for Jung and not for her, so her husband said, "Be careful," and she thought he was going to send her back to the mental hospital after saying that she had relapsed. Finally, she realized that her husband only loved Jung and not her, so she left her husband and went to Hin, who loved her.

The plot is not very good, but it is very delicate in describing the wife's state of mind. It brings out a unique touch in describing the meaning of love.

"This story is a very good love story. It tells the story of love between three people. Do you see that?" I asked Than Swe.

"How is it?"

"Jane Sim Moon really loves her husband, her husband loves Joan, and Hin really loves Jane, and they love each other, and so on."

"Yes, of course."

"Love must be one-sided. A love that is reciprocated can be true love, but it is hard to compete with love."

"Love has a very subtle meaning, so people don't really understand it, Maung Yin. The love that people know now is not really love. It's just like. We need to distinguish between love and like. People just say love, love. The love that people know is just like, as I said.

"Love and liking are similar in appearance, but they are very different. What does it mean when a man loves a woman?"

"Love means wanting that woman."

"Yes, the love we're talking about now is based on the intention to take, and if it's based on the desire to want, it shouldn't be called love. It should just be called liking."

"If you want to call it love, I want it to be meaningful love."

“Why?” “Meaningful love is like this. For example, if a man loves a woman, he can answer the question, “Why?” and give reasons like, “Because she is beautiful, wealthy, honorable, intelligent, and educated.”

"If a woman loves a man, why do you ask her why she loves him? She might say that he is handsome. Or maybe he is intelligent, rich, or has honor. She might want to say it openly, or she might want to keep it quiet, but it has that kind of meaning. That's called meaningful love."

"That's why many people marry out of love and meaningful relationships. When they get married, they often think about it before getting married. If they don't think about it, they blame themselves," said Than Swe.

"Marriage is like a business contract. Whether you love or not is irrelevant. Just because a marriage is successful does not mean that the husband and wife truly love each other. What does it mean to have a happy marriage? If the husband and wife are in harmony and work together in business, society, and marriage without failing to fulfill their obligations, they say that their marriage is happy. Is it just because they are praised for how good they are as a couple and that they have never had a fight since they got married that they are happy?"

"Yes, sir, I thought about it, I didn't even think about writing a novel. Even in his forties, men are still active and modern. Women are not as knowledgeable as men, so the man wants to take care of a modern girl who is about twenty years younger than him. Because only a girl of that age is as modern as he is. The girl also becomes comfortable with the behavior of an older man. Then, the complications of marriage come in. I don't want to write that novel," Than Swe said with a laugh.

"Why, how did this idea come about?"

“I’m afraid that if I write this novel, Ma Than Sein will publish it,” he said, laughing again.

"Well, if you write, write carefully. It's more important than having it printed at home. You'll have to work hard. If you're lazy, the reader won't understand. The man will be like a fool."

"Say, teacher, a word of love," Than Swe begged me to continue speaking.

'I know a little about meaningful love. I'll tell you a little about meaningless love. Meaningless love is easy. One loves another. Why do you love? Not because of why, but because you love love, without expecting anything, and not because you like it. Love is hidden within you. When and where and why is it hidden, you can only shake your head and say that you don't know. So what do you want to do? Real love is not something that is cultivated. Can you make the desire to eat or the desire to sleep work? Eating without wanting to eat, sleeping without wanting to sleep, is it different?'

"The Western realist guru says that love is born out of experience. That's true, isn't it?"

"It is true that love is based on material things, but there is a difference between love and desire. When the focus is on a material thing and one wants to possess it, that is desire. Desire demands, but love does the opposite, it does not demand. For example, if a man loves a woman, the lover fulfills all the needs of the beloved, does not ask for anything in return, and if there is desire, he does not give, he tries to possess her. That is why I said, right? There is a difference between liking and love. Many people get married based on liking. Liking is a meaningful love, while true love is a meaningless love."

'Tell me a little bit about how love arises, sir.'

“Love is always hidden inside, and at first you don’t know it, but sometimes, because of something, it comes out. Don’t think that love just comes like a storm, it just comes out. You should also remember that it has been hidden inside for a long time. So, brother, have you read the novel We Are Not Alone by Jane Hilton? Have you seen the movie? It was shown in Yangon before the war.

“I will tell you the story in brief. There was a doctor in a small town in England. He had a wife who was always sick and a son who was not very well. The doctor was very ordinary, his wife was not very well, and she was a hot-tempered woman, but the doctor was quite cool. They had a German girl as their maid.

“When World War I broke out, people surrounded the Germans in England and threw stones at them. They also surrounded the doctor’s house. They demanded that the German girl be released. The doctor had hidden the girl. When the people saw her, he sneaked her out through the back door and pedaled his bicycle, asking the girl to sit on the back, and they rode to the station a short distance away.

"While people were gathering, the boy reached for the candy jar and the bottle broke. So he poured the pills from a bottle on the shelf into a nearby bottle, put the candy in the empty bottle, and left it untouched."

"When the time came, the old woman took the pill from the bottle she usually took and ate it. She took the poison pill and died. She was about to run away to the station with the German girl, so the old woman who was the garbage collector at home reported it to the police. The doctor confessed that he had poisoned his wife and run away with the German girl.

'During the trial, the prosecutor asked the doctor sharply, "You love this girl, don't you?" The doctor, after a long pause, simply and calmly replied, "Yes, of course."

"Looking at that honest face, he didn't know that he had a love for this German girl inside him. Only when the lawyer asked him did he remember and honestly confessed. So love didn't come out like a sudden storm, but like a big pile of gunpowder, it ignited like a matchstick and exploded."

"Now, teacher, try explaining the concept of love as you explain the concept of clothing," he asked, smiling, his large face lifted, his glasses reflecting the light of the sun coming in from outside the room.