Kyaw Win - Twenty-first Century Golden Egg

There is a book that teenagers all over the world, both East and West, are looking for. It is called "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens". The author of this book is the son of SEASOEY famous management expert 'Stephen Covey'. 'Shawn Covey ' .

Steven's ' The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People' is also a best-selling book. However, that book is aimed at adults. "Shao"'s book is for teenagers, so it is more enjoyable to read at a leisurely pace. We are introducing this book for the teenage audience.

I want to laugh when the leaves shake.

I have to admit it with shame. I am in the seventh grade. I have a bad feeling about my classmate, Min Ko (La). (In my opinion) Nik Ko (La) is really beautiful. She is as beautiful as she is beautiful. So I was scared. I am not 'proud ' of myself . As usual, I have to rely on matchmaking. I can't find much. My friend "Klara" is fond of this kind of thing. She is also very good at it. She also helps me with her heart. "I trust her responsibility." That's great.

The next day, when I met ' Klara ' , my voice was shaking.

"How did you say it?" "Okay." "How did you say it?"

"How can I say that? It's obvious. Nick (La), that guy Xiao was hitting him..."

"Ha" I felt sick. But I still wanted to hear the answer.

"So... what did he say?" "That's funny... I don't like this one."

"Clara' left laughing, but I felt like crying. I was falling. It was like falling headlong into a bottomless pit. I even thought that I would never love another woman in my life."

This story is a true story of the original author of this book, "Xiang Kovey". Don't laugh, you must have experienced this too. "The Queen's twisted love... What's wrong? " I want to shout.

I'm about to shout. What I mean is, ' Adolescence is a time when a small group of people are sensitive and vulnerable.'

"I'm so upset, I haven't finished my homework yet. Hey, is tomorrow the week? I haven't received any letters yet. What a shame. Oh my God, it's already nine o'clock. Mom, let's eat."

“Hon, I’ve already bought a VCD from this count’s house. My father said he would buy it for me, but I haven’t bought it yet. Oh, my, school is almost here. I’m so bored. When I get to school, I’ll hear that guy bragging. How great would it be if the world were destroyed right now? Why didn’t that big meteorite hit me?”

"The teachers in their circle are very good. Our teachers are not very good. If they are not good, my mother will put them in a cheap circle. I am unlucky. That woman doesn't wear ready-made clothes. If I come here once, I will wear a T-shirt from a thrift store... Well... I will worship the Buddha and become a rich woman in my next life, Lord..."

"You're so cruel, Aye... I don't even have a car. I don't want to be the one who rides the bus, the one who rides the bus, and the one who says, 'MC' , I failed the tenth grade twice. If you can mix knowledge and money, you're in love, but if you can't mix it, you're not in love, you're not in love, you're not in love, you're not in love... There's no true love."

How will these "children with their spines growing" approach adulthood? What will be going on in their minds, and what will be reflected in their behavior?

Book of Losses Here we have listed all the common teenage behaviors that we see around us. How many of these behaviors do your friends have? All of them?

(1) Find the culprit (React)

There was a popular joke from the Cold War era. A young man accidentally tripped while walking. His immediate reaction was, “It’s because of imperialism.” When something unpleasant, a difficulty, a problem arises, it’s easy to think of nothing else and quickly find someone to blame.

(2) Begin with No End in Mind

Ask yourself what you are passionate about, what you want to be. Don't listen to what others say. If you examine yourself honestly, you will often find that you are not passionate about anything, even if you are. You don't think about tomorrow. You live in the moment, today. Eat and sleep, Bhikkhus, when you die, you will go to heaven on your back... Very sad...

(3) Random (Put First Thing Last)

I sat down at the table to study. As soon as the TV showed a good movie, I got up from the table and went to the TV. Today I was going to wash my clothes. While I was thinking, my friend called me. I sat in the tea shop. I was going to do some exercise. I took off my shirt when the phone rang. “Hello, I have orders”, “Oh, Sweetie, are you okay”.... It was fun.

That's great. I haven't thought about what's most important, what to do first. I'll just do it randomly.

(4) Think Win-Lose

'Why do you think I'm such a jerk?', 'Think about how to get rid of this guy.' 'Kesaraza is one person, never two.' This is the attitude I usually have towards everyone who is my academic rival, or my lover, or something else. It's the habit of saying, "If you win, you win, if you don't, you'll just step on the sidelines." Even though they say, "There's no such thing as fair play in love and war," everything is still the same.

5) Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen

People have both mouths and ears, but they often forget their ears. They only use their mouths to please others. As soon as they meet someone, they start talking. If they have to listen because they can't help it, they pretend to listen and only think about what they have to say next. Why listen to other people's nonsense? It's boring. It's not fun to give a speech yourself.

(6) Lone Ranger (Don't Cooperate)

These guys are so good that they have to cooperate with you. They are trying to use my skills and come up with nice words. What kind of cooperation is this? Go and try it. Ride your own horse and reach Sagaing. Ride your own boat and reach Bago.

(7) Priest Style (Wear Yourself Out)

Only an empty vessel keeps on beating. I am a full vessel, I don't need to fill it up. I already have the truth. I don't need more truth. It's a waste of time. .

Whether these habits are good or bad, my friends, think for yourself. According to "Shao Covey", these are tickets to the theater of doom. If you have these habits, you have already "booked" for doom.

Tree of life

Let's reverse the "loss-booking" mentioned above. Here are seven habits that will come to mind.

1. Be Proactive

When there is a problem, I think first , "What am I doing wrong?" Then I think about the rest. "Let me free myself, and blame others ." I don't do that. I take responsibility for myself.

2. Aim for the target (Begin with the End in Mind)

I first decide what I want to be, what my goal is. It's the ' Mission ' mentality.

3. Put First Thing First

I don't do things haphazardly. I tend to take things step by step, with a plan.

4. Think Win-Win

I don't care whether I win or lose. I care about finding a mutually beneficial "solution. "

5. Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood

First, I try to understand others. I also open the door for others to understand me.

6. Synergize

I don't do it alone. I try to work together with everyone.

7. Sharpen the Saw

The door to my mind is never closed. It is always open to new ideas and perspectives. I am constantly ' learning ' to keep my knowledge and my actions sharp .

If you have these habits, you are almost certain to win the battle of life. So, you can say that these are the insurance cards for victory in life.

Let's illustrate these seven virtues with a picture to make them easier to remember. The first three are the efforts to conquer your inner self. Private Victory. "Inner Victory ." It is like the roots of a big tree. If the roots are strong, the tree will not fall. The fourth to sixth three virtues are like the trunk. The trunk needs to be strong to withstand the wind, rain, and storms. To be victorious in dealing with people. Ph :Mic Victory. We will call it "Outer Victory. "