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Chapter - 1

Secret life

You can see everything from the right perspective. If you can see, you will be able to see the whole world as a beautiful green garden.

- Frances Hodgson Burnett

We are all living three lives. Those three lives are

(1) Public life

(2) Personal life

(3) Secret life...

The secret life is where your true feelings begin to move, where your ultimate desires for life begin, where your heart is.

A secret life is also a fundamental resource that will lead to extraordinary success.

If you have the courage to explore your secret life, you can honestly question yourself about your deepest interests.

Our 3 lives

Public life is about our colleagues, team members, and other people in our community who are part of our lives, and we ourselves are exposed to many things thanks to them.

In our personal lives, our spouses, family members, and closest and dearest friends are essential and can shape our personal lives to their best potential.

The secret life is completely different from our private life and our public life. The secret life has the ability to push both our private life and our public life.

Most people don't visit their secret life even once in a while.

Only when you have entered your own secret life once can you truly examine your own life. Once you have entered your own secret life and done so, you will be able to be aware of everything about yourself.

The main resource needed to enter and explore your secret life is "courage."

Your secret life resides in your heart, where the things that motivate you to do the things you truly want to do, the ultimate desires of your life reside.

Checking what motivates you to do the things you want to do.

When you visit my secret life, be prepared to ask the following questions.

• How should I think?
• Are my beliefs correct?
• What should be the things that inspire me?

I will carefully select the things that truly inspire me to do the things I want to do and answer myself this way.

"This is my private life, but it's also my secret life. I have to try to hide the most valuable things in my secret life that no one else can. I have to make the best choices about how I spend my time and energy."

"I have to wake up early in the morning and try to do some health exercises. I have to try to get the best motivation for my life. I have to try to reconcile with those I have had conflicts with in the past. Then I can shape my secret life in the best way possible."

One of the exciting benefits of living a secret life is the ability to consciously and consciously choose the motivations that drive your success in life.

To achieve success in your secret life, you need to be able to ask and answer your own secret questions.

If you don't make good choices in your secret life...you won't have the right motivation in everything you do and you won't be successful in life.

When I am faced with a confusing situation, a difficult situation to understand, I will have to enter my secret life for a moment or two and ask myself questions.

“Will I be able to stand the test of time among good rules and regulations?” “If I don’t have the basic qualities to succeed… will I be left with the trappings of secondary success?”

In order to enter my secret life and make discoveries, I must first develop the qualities of self-awareness, good imagination, the ability to analyze and understand good and bad, right and wrong, and effective motivation for success in life.

For example, when thinking about your career, you might ask yourself the following questions: “What are the things that truly motivate me?”

If I were to make a career decision, I would have to visit the secret place in my life where my heart is and ask myself this question.

"I am completely prepared to do the first thing I need to do first. Will I be able to keep my choices and priorities straight?"

A secret life filled with positive energy can have a positive impact on both your public and private lives in various ways.

For example, when I am preparing to give a speech, I must focus on speaking clearly and with a strong voice so that I can deliver a good speech and convey the main points I want to say.

A secret life full of good qualities is an important key to secondary success.

Strong self-affirmation,

Being able to affirm yourself is a fundamental key to having a fulfilling private life.

Self-assertion means having the ability to achieve your goals, the courage to take responsibility for everything you do, the ability to be self-assured, and the ability to believe in yourself.

To become a person with strong self-assertion, you must first possess the following 5 unique characteristics.

• Self-efficacy, ability to perform with one's own qualities, and a personal understanding of what needs to be done for one's own success.
• Having a positive attitude without negativity, the ability to correctly judge what is wrong, right, black and white, and the ability to firmly affirm oneself in every matter one does.
• Representing the present, what you are doing right now, and being able to predict what you might do next.
• The ability to see things more clearly than anyone else with your "mind's eye."
• Directly related to emotions, obsessive and intense feelings.

How strong self-affirmation can influence the above 5 traits in turn

Example - 1

More hyperactive than usual

If you were to tip over a cup of milk, one of your parents would normally decide that if you can't even control this little cup of milk from tipping over, you won't be able to make it through life successfully.

You will be willing to resolve this stressful situation with self-control and patience. You are a strong, self-assured person, so be wise and wise.