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Love with men

I will only discuss the love of an adult man towards the opposite sex. The love of a man towards his parents, children, etc. will not be included in this section. Therefore, I would like to remind you that the term love in this section only refers to the love of men towards the opposite sex. Another thing is that I want to discuss a very broad topic as comprehensively as possible, so I do not want to assume that it is complete. There are many extreme problems. There are many exceptions. We can only discuss in general terms. I would like to be aware of these two things in advance.

Appearance

If love is true, then men and women are the same: love = love. If we distinguish between the types of love, we can distinguish between male love and female love. These two types of love are generally similar, but they are completely different. Men are the ones who seek love since they have reached adulthood. This raises the question of whether love can be sought.

Everyone knows that Mahatha was looking for his own wife. He found Amara. Yes. They got married. It cannot be said that Mahatha did not have love. Mahatha did not marry Amara without loving her. It can be argued that love only happened when he found the girl he wanted to marry while searching for her.

A man has certain pre-determined mental and emotional states for love to occur. He himself would know these things only if he wanted to know. In fact, in his subconscious mind, the various forms of a woman he will accept are already predetermined. If we continue to think deeply about this one issue, it is worth thinking about how it could be so predetermined.

If we remove past karma, virtues, and past life spirits from a person, we can start talking about instinct. I want to clarify instinct a little. Instinct does not happen automatically. If you do anything often, it becomes a habit. It is also called habit. If you do it often, that habit will turn into a hobby. If you do it often, that hobby will turn into a habit called character. This is the nature of the process. In this process, some people advance quickly, while others take a long time to advance.

In conclusion, different people have different personalities. Even one person has different personalities depending on their location. These personalities are innate since the moment a person is born. Innate mind, innate intelligence, innate personality, etc. are already there. Some are subtle and some are obvious. Some are small and some are big. No matter what is established, from birth to birth, from birth to later, we learn from the environment. The environment includes parents, family, relatives, neighbors, teachers, books, changes in circumstances, friends, as well as animals, trees, forests, and mountains.

When a man reaches adulthood (let's say he's 16 years old), he has a combination of instincts, intelligence, and traits, as well as the various traits he has learned from his environment over the past 16 years. Some of the innate traits become weaker, while others become stronger. Let's put these aside and combine the two together to define a collective mind, collective intelligence, and personality. These are already colored in that man. I think that's enough for the word "pre-determined." An adult man has already predetermined, either in his conscious or unconscious mind, the type of woman he will like and accept. He may or may not be aware of them. If they don't fit into those predetermined traits, he will reject them. In a matter of seconds or minutes, they will automatically reject them. It's not a particularly powerful thing. I don't think any new computer developed outside could beat the computer in his brain. It's just too fast to calculate.

As for the pre-determined, it was also said in the previous section that there are many different types of a woman's appearance. There is no specific definition of what a woman's appearance is. The basic information is already predetermined. Mahāsādha could not have known the exact form of Amara. It is true that a woman named Amara exists in this world. But he was not looking for that woman named Amara. He was looking for a woman like Amara. If he met a woman like Amara who was not Amara, he would have taken her. Here, some people may want to argue about where the word "water drop" goes. I would like to discuss that water drop separately if we encounter it later.

Earlier, it was said that men are the ones who search for love when they are adults. It is also worth considering whether love can be searched for. That is right. Search. The way they search is like searching for airplanes with radar. They may be searching consciously or unconsciously. But their radar is always on. Except when they are sleeping. Everything that comes into their radar field is calculated by a special computer in their brain. If it does not match the pre-defined characteristics of a woman, it immediately shows a red light.

For a man walking in Yangon, tens of thousands of women can enter their radar field. And that's just in a single day. And those tens of thousands of women can be calculated by their brain computers in a single day. Some take seconds, some take minutes. There are many that don't get caught by the radar field. Where is this radar placed on a man? It's placed under the forehead, on the left and right sides of the nose. It's also placed under the ears. There are four other types of radar. Let's leave it. Only the first radar is relevant to this discussion, so let's focus on that one radar.

The boys send out a search beam that no one knows about from that radar. If it matches the data that has been programmed in the computer, colored lights flash. A long warning siren is also sounded. If it matches only slightly, it is announced how much it is. But that announcement is also an estimate. The exact number is not announced until later. If the search beam finds something that is slightly similar but dangerous, it sounds a long warning siren. Two red lights flash. If it is very dangerous, it flashes three red lights. It is a signal to run. If you don't escape, you are doomed. It is funny to say that.

If most of the data matches and it is safe, the colored lights turn on. The siren also sounds long. There, a man's love begins to take shape. But there is only a small amount of love. It is checked again with the remaining data. If it matches, a green light is shown. The siren also continues to sound without stopping.