Beautiful - Good husband

Marriage perspective

Marriage is the gateway to the world. Since birth, everything that has been accomplished in the human world has been to lead a new life with a single house, and only then does the true journey begin. Only when we strive for that stage and strive for it, "marriage" is the world of human life complete.

Therefore, the final stage of a young man's life is marriage, and he needs to be prepared to fulfill his responsibilities in that life.

Among the many preparatory requirements for a young man, it is necessary to first understand marriage realistically, rather than choosing a wife with the qualities he desires, in order to have good qualities.

If we think of marriage as a sensual experience, the reason will not be right. Because of this wrong reason, the preparation will not be as complete as necessary. We must understand that sensual experience is only a part of the affair, and marriage is only a consistent life-based existence.

In married life, one must fulfill the responsibilities of marriage with one's own strength. One must seek the help of a stranger and develop a close and trusting relationship. One must prepare for future life affairs. One must perform worldly duties.

These are not small matters. In carrying out the responsibilities of marriage based on love and lust, there are many things that make us cry easily and have difficulty breathing.

Sexual pleasure can only be fulfilled in the happiness of marriage, and the expectations and thoughts of youth often differ from reality. To avoid this, one must anticipate all the joys, sorrows, and responsibilities of marriage in advance.

When you become an adult, your love and desire will always be awakened. However, if not all adults are blind and blind... they will not easily take on the responsibility of marriage. Marriage is a blessing in the midst of a storm of suffering. Marriage comes with hard work and responsibilities. Therefore, as soon as you decide to get married or start a family, you need to understand and consider that marriage is not only a love relationship but also a social, life-sustaining, and greater responsibility.

In married life, one must understand that one must enter a new life, different from the life of receiving the support of one's parents, the life of an individual who lives as he pleases, the life of not yet facing the troubles and sufferings of the world on his own, and the life of being free from the constraints of responsibility.

Marriage is a life journey that will be decided from the beginning to the end. Just as it is not easy to change, it is necessary to weigh up the responsibility in advance and decide whether to accept it or not. If you are in a bad mood in the future, you will only be in a world of losses, so it is especially necessary to be strong. It is also necessary to be able to foresee, be brave, be able to endure the hardships of the world, and have the perseverance and determination to overcome difficulties.

In fact, love affairs can only be achieved if the marriage is full of prosperity. If you are not focused on one side and think carefully, you will not be able to do it easily. Only by seeing the affairs of married life with a clear vision in advance can you become a good husband.

The relationship of marriage is a relationship with a lover, or a person to be loved. True, but we should not forget that the lover, or person to be loved, is a relationship with a stranger who has inherited our own mentality and habits. We must also be aware that we will be dealing with a partner who will shed the superficial layers of pretense and pretense that permeate love before it is truly established.

You must also understand that the more you feel comfortable in married life, the more you have to take on your responsibilities. If you take marriage lightly and casually, you will only regret it later.

Having understood the meaning of marriage, a good husband must prepare for the new life that is about to begin. Once he knows the foundation of life, he must strive to develop and strengthen his own vital forces.

When starting a marriage, you will have to collect and store the necessary money, materials, and material resources. Only by increasing your strength to meet the appropriate standards in the worldly life and in the worldly life will you have a beautiful debut. A marriage cannot be fully collected and formed at the same time. Throughout the life of a marriage, you will have to provide everything you need in the world, from equipment and tools to food, clothing, and shelter. However, if you start a marriage with nothing, you will have to work harder along the way, and your basic strength will not be stable, and you will not be able to accelerate the establishment. Therefore, apart from showing off your material wealth and your own strength, it is the responsibility of every good husband and wife to provide the basic money, materials, and material resources necessary for the worldly life.

Then, in order to have the ability to sustain a marriage, it is necessary to cultivate the qualities of a good man. The qualities of a good man should not be developed just before marriage, but should be developed gradually from childhood. However, when marriage is approaching, the qualities that have been developed must be strengthened and examined to see if they will be able to withstand the difficult journey ahead, and the necessary qualities must be developed vigorously.

Good men's qualities

The qualities of good men are... very many, but in general, they are only five: physical strength, intellectual strength, friendship, moral strength, and financial strength.

These qualities are the basic needs of every man, whether he enters the married world or not. If he wants to excel, he must develop these qualities more than he should. However, for those who have to bear the burden of marriage, they need to be more complete. Only when these five qualities are complete can he fully enjoy the benefits of the world and be able to benefit the world. These qualities are not only for men but also for women. However, it is not about being dependent, but about being dependent.

It is considered even more necessary for husbands to fulfill all five of these as much as possible.

If a good wife is intelligent, she will prefer a husband who is strong in one area and has good health to one who is weak in one. These areas are interconnected, and those who are physically strong, intellectually strong, and financially strong are all excellent in one area, while those who are weak in the other area are of little use in a real human marriage. In a marriage, all five areas must be used to achieve success, and the fulfillment of only one area does not bring complete happiness to the marriage.

Moreover, a one-sided perfection without support from another cannot be long-lasting. It has no foundation. A strength that is not dependent on the other is not only not developed or improved, but is only a temporary strength that cannot last forever. If there is health but no wealth, there is no strength to maintain that health. If there is wealth but no intelligence, there is no strength to remain, to improve, or to act. If there is intelligence but no health, there is no opportunity to strengthen intelligence. In this way, one-sided excellence is not an incentive for the married world.

If all five powers are developed to their full potential, it is the best and rarest. However, there can be a bias in one direction. It is not wrong to be more perfect in one power while the other powers are equally perfect. However, it is not desirable to be perfect in only one area without being perfect in all five powers.

These strengths need to be strengthened in harmony. We must constantly examine ourselves and strengthen ourselves to the extent that we need them. In strengthening our strengths in harmony, we will not achieve the same level of perfection as if we were strengthening only one area. However, such balanced development will not lead to the highest level of excellence, but it will allow us to use our strengths appropriately in marriage at every stage of our development. Even if each person is different in level and height, the effectiveness of the whole-round development of the five forces will never decrease as long as the path is correct.

In this way, he should be able to fulfill his duties with complete strength, and he should be able to match the vision and affection of his wife. She should not only be able to fulfill her physical strength, but also her intellectual strength.

She may have desires for wealth, power, and happiness. However, when her desires are confronted with the realities of life, they will change to reality and she will learn to appreciate the value of completeness in all aspects.

Every man should have the natural aspiration to develop all five faculties, even if only one of them is stimulated for various reasons. That is all.